There is nothing more horrible than seeing your friend of family member so hurt and traumatized. But, what do you say? How should you react? What can you do? are all normal questions and while there is no one correct answer, the links below may begin to help you as you help your loved one.
Michigan Coalition to End Domestic & Sexual Violence http://mcedsv.org/resources/parents_friends_and_family.html
Pandora's Project http://www.pandys.org/secondarysurvivors.html